Masturbate for first time

You learn a few things spending a week talking to people about the first time they masturbated; straight guys remember it well. Who could forget that first eruption and the sticky cleanup situation it left them in? Whether they spoke to their friends about rubbing one out or not, they were all continually reminded of it. The first boner, masturbation session, and the messy cleanup of young men are welcome comedy tropes. Even if you wanted to wipe the moment from your mind, Jason Bigg's face from American Pie wouldn't let you.

At Lioness , our mission is to provide access to knowledge of your own sexual pleasure, on your own terms, and destigmatize the taboos around it. We believe that sharing our experiences is a great way to foster conversation and work towards our goal of destigmatizing sexuality. So, naturally, we asked our community to tell us about their journey to masturbation. I was on the playground climbing a pole and it felt really good! I had no idea how it happened, but I obviously wanted to do it again.

Masturbation is a great way to discover more about your sexual self, likes and dislikes. It's the ideal way to work out what you what turns you on and off - and that info can most definitely be used when masturbating or having sex with someone else. We earn a commission for products purchased through some links in this article. Find a time when you're home alone and won't be interrupted. Turn off the television and hide your phone; do whatever you normally do to help you relax.

Masturbation — there , we said it. Touching yourself might feel taboo and you might be embarrassed to talk about it, but exploring your sexuality is totally normal. It's a healthy way to learn about yourself and your body, so you feel more comfortable when you're ready to have a sexual partner. And hey, it's fun and feels good, too.